Ready to Overcome That ONE BIG THING? 👹

Greetings!

That One Big Thing.

A friend (let's call her Carol) was telling me that she was looking for a good therapist.

Carol has this one issue that keeps rearing its ugly head and keeping her stuck in a situation that she can't seem to change.

Looking for a therapist who would help her talk through it, clear it and make some changes proved to be much harder than she expected.

Her complaint was that unless you are neuro-divergent or have some kind of extreme issue or disorder like anxiety, depression, PTSD, or OCD, it's hard to find help.

Carol just wants help with this ONE THING. This ordinary, human-life problem and she couldn't find that help.

She was frustrated and bewildered. And to tell you the truth, so was I when she told me.

Sometimes, we feel pretty good and life is going ok. But there is that ONE THING that feels like we will never be free of it.

It is probably a pattern of some kind.

Maybe it's co-dependence that we just can't see or understand, or a boss or coworker we just can't get along with because we don't realize they are like Dad or Mom or worse - an ex-spouse or lover.

It could be any kind of pattern that if we could be free of it life would be so good.

Basic human-life stuff.

Carol and I talked about how in the not too distant past it would be easy to find help for this kind of stuff.

But things have changed and mental and emotional challenges have gone beyond just everyday human-life stuff for so many people.

And therapists are helping those folks.

So what to do if you have that ONE THING and you're really ready to heal it and move on?

Of course - Rapid Eye to the rescue!

Rapid Eye Technology (RET) was originally designed for just such a situation.

In my practice the work has morphed to help those with deeper issues because the need is so great.

However, I still have a 6 session program for just that ONE BIG THING.

It allows you to complete the cycle of stuckness around the one pattern and be free, without years of therapy.

Using Energy Medicine, tapping and RET sessions that specifically address that ONE THING can be exactly what is needed.

It was for Carol. :)

If you are ready to let go of that ONE THING and would like to do it fast and effectively, let me know you've read this newsletter and you will save $60 on that 6 session package.

It's the year of the Fire Horse - let's dump the baggage and get galloping!

One more note in addition to RET, here is one of my favorite formulas for dealing with THAT ONE THING.

A simple, practical formula I like is this:

Clarity → Leverage → Action

Here’s how it works in real life:

Clarity – Define the issue precisely

Ask: “What is the real problem, in one sentence?”

(Not the symptoms. The core.)

If you can’t say it simply, you’re not ready to solve it yet.

Leverage – Find the smallest move with the biggest impact

Ask: “If I could only change one thing, what would make everything else easier?”

Big issues usually hinge on one constraint, fear, bottleneck, or missing decision.

Action – Take one concrete step within 24 hours

Ask: “What’s the next physical, visible action I can take?”

Not planning. Not researching. Something you can actually do.

Name it → Shrink it → Move it

Most “big issues” stay big because they’re vague, emotionally loaded, or untouched.

This formula forces the opposite.

Let's move into 2026 ready for the best life we can create!

Many Blessings!

Paula